How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can parents identify and address early signs of racial bias in young children?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What does it mean when a British person says "I can't be asked"?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why do gun lovers think their right to own a weapon supercedes everyone else's right to be safe and not be shot?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can the belief of not worshipping Christ held by Jehovah's Witnesses be disproven using scripture alone?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why can't the ISS take a picture of Earth and prove to the Flat Earth Society that Earth is not really flat?

Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What are some cute stories with your crush?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What does it mean when your husband comments and likes other women on social media? He has private IG and TikTok accounts that I have no access to. He has saved videos and pictures of women on his phone.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What do you think of Hegseth calling The Atlantic journalist Jeffrey Goldberg, "a deceitful and highly discredited so-called journalist who has made a profession of peddling hoaxes” after team Trump texted him their top-secret war plans on Yemen?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Ask yourself:

What happens if someone fills up their car at the pump but leaves without paying? How is this situation typically handled?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Who has experienced what they called a happy accident (bestiality)?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What was Easter day like for you as a child?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.